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Anonymous asked:
Are you guys back yet?😔

No. We’re only replying to resolve that photo issue.

If/when D decides that he seriously and 100% wants this relationship to work, then we’ll be back. Until then, it’ll be random reblogs or nothing at all.
Sorry.

@sin-sex-satan
I went onto your blog and into your tagged/me page and I didn’t recognize any of the photos that you have on there as ones we have posted. The furthest I could go was the eye with the pentagram thing on it, so I don’t know if there were more earlier than that, but that’s as far as the mobile site would let me go.

Again, if you could send us the link to the photo we posted then we could definitely take it down. But as of right now, I have no idea what one it would be.

sin-sex-satan asked:
i dont have the link to it you can find it on my tagged/me page and remove the one you used and others that you may plan on taking in future...

We’ll definitely try to find it, but we have a lot of posts on a 2 year old blog, so without the link it may be difficult to locate, especially on mobile.

sin-sex-satan asked:
Can you take down my picture please?

Sure thing, just message us the link to it.

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protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print. 
Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticizedfiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

And this post is going into my bookmarks, because it is beautiful.

What scares me most is the fact that people, misinformed and ignorant people, will now try to enter the community/find play partners with the dangerous ideas of what BDSM is. They won’t respect a sub, they won’t listen.
And that can seriously hurt people. People can DIE.

All of this. Anyone who is thinking about experimenting with a BDSM relationship PLEASE do not use this book as a guide. It can be VERY dangerous if not done correctly and safely. Communication is a HUGE FUCKING PART of a BDSM sexual relationship and it is simply not catered to in this book. There are tons of fanfiction authors on here and on AO3 who do BDSM justice. They write about safe words, aftercare, consent, all of it. Go find some of those instead of using this as a guide. 

Great scene.
Anonymous asked:
j,bgj

Me too

Anonymous asked:
Are you sad about D ending it or kind of used to it? Also are you looking for another relationship or just focusing on work?

I’m used to it because it happens so often, and I’m also incredibly sad about it. Nobody except him captures my attention, so thoughts of other relationships or hookups are nowhere near my mind. I’m focusing on work and fitness, and if we’re not back together (we’ve discussed it as well as still plan on getting married, but we’ll see) by the time school resumes, then I’ll also be focusing on that. He’s still my best friend, we still talk about the future, and we still love each other.

So yeah… That’s about it. He has made no promise to not hookup with other girls, so that kind of sucks, but he’s going to do whatever he’s going to do unfortunately.

Probably won’t answer any more questions about this.

Anonymous asked:
Are you guys still together ? Or is it just that you aren't as active as before ??? :(

D ended it (temporarily…? who knows), and while I try to keep it active, my heart just isn’t in it.

We’re not deleting though, just very little posting, until we possibly?? get back together. It’s all up to him, I’m just along for the ride.

Anonymous asked:
Ever cried from being fucked so hard? I tend to do it a ton doggy style. For some reason it's too intense.

Only from the one time D slapped me in the face during. It didn’t hurt or anything, just way too intense.